DIY Hair Putty

Check out my overall review, the recipe and what I would try different next time. 
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Are you tired of using hair products filled with questionable ingredients? This blog post has the perfect solution for you! 

I struggled to find a hair putty that met my standards, so I decided to make my own using natural ingredients.
With just beeswax, coconut oil, shea butter, honey, and essential oils of your choice (preferably from Young Living), you can create a sassy and textured look in no time. 

The mixture is easy to make and can be used on both wet and dry hair. 

While the current texture is hard, I suggest trying to whip the product while it's cooling to achieve a more creamy consistency. 

Overall, this DIY hair putty is a win for personal care products.

You'll find the ingredients and how to below. 

1/4 cup beeswax
2 tbs shea butter 
1/4 tsp honey 
Essential oils of choice 

Create a double boiler and add all of your ingredients minus the essential oils. 

Melt everything down on a medium to low heat. 

Once melted, remove from heat, pour in jar of choice and continue to stir. 

Add your essential oils (15 drops total) to your mix. 
I personally use cedarwood, rosemary and lavender and purchase my oils from Young Living.

Mix and let harden. 

I've used this on dry hair and wet. It does exactly what I required to create that textured looked. 
I would consider this an easy DIY and win for personal care products. 

Next time, I will try to whip the product while it's cooling to see if it leaves it a more creamy texture. 
The current state is hard but once you get it between the fingers, you can easily work it. 

Shifting To Positive Parenting

Shifting To Positive Parenting

I can vividly remember moments as a child that I was having a tantrum or acting out over something. I can remember sitting on the sofa crying and just wanting someone to ask me if things were ok. To assure me that it was safe to talk to them if needed. 

I had multiple siblings and parents who would laugh as I yelled, screamed, cried and swore because I was so upset. They called me "Helly" anytime I would have a tantrum. 

All I needed was for someone to talk and listen to what was going on. 

Times were different then. I think every generation has their experience with trauma and how they were raised. 

My parents would have experienced physical discipline. By hand or belt. That was the social norm then, even teachers would use that way of “teaching” right from wrong. 

Then my generation where you typically experienced a lot of yelling, blame and shame which ultimately set you up in an environment to lie, close off and not feel comfortable to talk it out. 

I wonder if that's a reason why anxiety is at an all time high for people in my generation. 

Growing up feeling really shitty about the emotions you were experiencing, that it was important to “tuffin up” which ultimately left you feeling worse about having emotions and what you were thinking. 

How can kids do better in that environment? How can kids learn and grow from the emotions and feelings they are experiencing? 

Being a mom to two girls can be challenging. The attitudes, the emotions, the lack of listening...but my heart wanted so badly to be a positive influence and role model in my girls lives. I wanted them to experience positive parenting, to know that I was and am a safe place for them. I wanted to break the cycle for them. 

BUT things started to take a turn...for the worse.

I was becoming a mom I didn't recognize....I found myself experiencing mom rage more often than I wanted to admit. 

I was finding myself going to bed sad or crying because of the yelling match I just had with my 6 year old. I was feeling extreme guilt over every little outrage that would happen. 

Bedtime was a nightmare. Often someone in tears. 

I was feeling at an all time low with my parenting strategies. My heart knew that a shift had to happen. 

I knew that the things I was doing (yelling, stomping off in frustration, playing the blame and shame game with my kids) needed to end. I knew positive parenting techniques were top priority and in order to break the cycle it had to start by me learning to change what I knew as parenting strategies. 

That's when I reached out on my social media and asked other mommas for some suggestions. Books, podcasts, name it, they recommended it to me. Something I’ve been beyond thankful for. 

I bought a few of the recommended books and followed some of the pages or groups and the wealth of information that is out there is truly amazing. 

So here I am, on this new journey of breaking the cycle. Committing to continue to educate myself on ways I can positively raise my children to be kind, smart, independent and strong women in this world. Who will stand up for the things they believe in, to not feel guilt over the emotions they are experiencing and to know that good and positivity trumps fear and negativity. 

Knowledge is power and when we come together to share the resources we have and the things we know, only good can come from that. 

I am so excited to lead a Positive Parenting book club over in my online community. Where we meet once a week to chat about current books we are reading to increase our knowledge on positive parenting strategies and implement them into our own lives. Thus making a major shift on the future generations. 

It's never to late to implement positive parenting tools with your kids. If making a shift to positive parenting is a journey you want to start, feel free to head over to our free FB community for support. 

If you'd like to see what books we are reading in our book club, go ahead and click the button below to check out where we are and how you can grab your book to follow along!

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