
As I mentioned previously, I was a stressed-out mom. While feeling slightly stressed on different occasions is normal, having heightened levels of stress for extended periods of time is not normal, and it was detrimental to my health. It was disrupting my body’s natural hormone balance, causing insomnia and low energy. Once I started taking care of myself, consistently using hormone supplements and oils, my hormones became balanced, and my health improved. Here’s how to tell if you’ve reached that tipping point and what you can do about it.
Symptoms of Imbalanced Hormones
Many women know that mood swings, hot flashes, and weight gain are known to be symptoms of hormonal imbalance. But did you know that urinary incontinence, brain fog, and memory loss can also be symptoms? Other symptoms of hormonal imbalances include night sweats, leg cramps, vaginal dryness, sleep disturbances, anxiety, depression, and loss of interest in sex. Each symptom can have an effect on different aspects of life.
Causes of Hormone Imbalance
The most important step to treating hormone imbalance is to look for the root cause. Ninety-nine percent of the time, it’s stress. In our modern times, it can also be called overstimulation.
Stress can be caused by numerous ways including getting too much exercise (especially cardio), having too much sugar and flour in your diet, lack of sleep, drinking too much caffeine or alcohol, too much electronic stimulation or time on devices, or having toxic people in your life. Of women who experienced a hormonal imbalance, 36 was the average age that their first symptoms occurred. Typically, what we start seeing in the mid-30s are the PMS symptoms, irregular cycles, and heavier cramping, so birth control pills, antidepressants, and sleeping pills start to be prescribed at that age. But that is only addressing the symptom and not addressing the cause of those symptoms.
How Stress Creates an Imbalance
Your body naturally creates stress hormones. Produced by the endocrine system, these hormones — including cortisol and adrenaline — help you react to situations that require a quick increase of energy and attention. I, along with many Americans, experience this small surge of adrenaline from time to time. I have had the unfortunate experience of almost missing a flight, and I’ve needed to speak in front of crowds. Unfortunately, when stress hormones are released more frequently and remain in the bloodstream for sustained periods, we may experience a hormone imbalance. Without management, these “fight or flight” responses also can wreak havoc on your health.
Hormones and Overall Health
Stress hormones are only meant to be released by the body on occasion. Yet, in the modern world, feeling “stressed out” every day is increasingly common. Those who are chronically stressed are at a higher risk of health problems, including weight gain, high blood pressure, thyroid issues and higher risks for infection, fatigue, insomnia, depression, anxiety and gastrointestinal problems such as diarrhea and constipation. Too much stress also can cause an irregular menstrual cycle and infertility in women, as well as a decreased libido in both men and women. Because stress also triggers mood swings and irritability, a hormone imbalance can lead to personal problems. Overall, when stress creates a hormonal imbalance, it’s capable of negatively affecting your entire life.
Ways to Manage Stress
Becoming aware of when and why you’re feeling stressed is the first step to addressing a stress-induced hormone imbalance. By learning how to stay calm during tense situations, you’ll be able to better control your reactions to external stimuli. Here are a few great ideas for reducing stress and eliminating a hormone imbalance:
- Adopting a regular exercise routine
- Practicing daily meditation, mindfulness and/or deep breathing exercises
- Improving your sleep hygiene
- Minimizing your consumption of caffeine and alcohol
- Establishing and maintaining a healthy diet
- Evaluating and adjusting your life balance
- Seeking out emotional support from family and friends
- Enlisting the help of a therapist, psychologist or other mental health professional
It’s not always easy to figure out what’s going on inside your body. By paying attention to how you feel and your reactions to stressful situations, you may be able to identify and treat a potential hormone imbalance.
On my Facebook page “Freedom-n-Joy Essentials”, this week I am talking about what supplements and oils you can use to balance your hormones. Hop on over to my page to find out more info!



Before diving into the topic of creating a toxin-free home, I want to share my “why?” with you. With any major choice we make, it is important to know why we make them.
Many of you know that my two youngest daughters were diagnosed with Autism as toddlers. In their early years, I did not know about the dangers of toxic cleaning products, so I used many of them freely in my home. I always bought the best smelling fragrances, but I had no idea that many fragrances can be harmful to the health of our bodies. Cleaning products and fragrances that contain toxic chemicals can also be very disruptive to our hormone balance.
My daughters had a lot of behavioral issues growing up and I realize now that the cleaning products I was using caused many of those issues. I also used common skincare products on myself and my girls. Many of those products also contain toxins that work their way through the skin and into the bloodstream. When I learned how toxic the chemicals are to our bodies, I switched over to all toxin-free products. Within a few months, we started noticing a difference in our girls’ behavior. They were able to focus more at school, their moods improved, and they became calmer. The health of everyone in our home has improved, and we very rarely get sick anymore because we are not exposing ourselves to unneeded and disruptive chemicals.
Many people are already aware of the dangers of hidden household toxins and the ways to prevent them. Others may not be as aware, or they may simply be overwhelmed with how to make the transition. Achieving a healthier home environment doesn’t need to be overwhelming and it doesn’t have to be an all-or-nothing ordeal. However, it is a serious matter that deserves our time and attention.
Research shows that the air within our home is 2-5 times more toxic than the air we breathe outside. Isn’t that startling?! Inadequate ventilation (especially during the winter) is the primary cause of indoor air pollution. Other causes are chemical cleaners, beauty care products, synthetic fibers and materials, paints, glues….and even something as “simple” as a plastic baby toy that is “off-gassing” chemicals.
My intention is not to alarm you, but to empower you! By taking the proactive and preventative steps below, you can decrease the toxins within your home and reduce your risk of illness, allergies, and more.
Improve Air Quality
There are many ways to improve the air quality within your home. On beautiful days, open your windows and allow the air within your home to be refreshed. Adding plants to your home will help to purify the air. Diffuse or spray essential oils (my favorites are Thieves and Purification). Consider purchasing a Himalayan salt lamp. These lamps are intended to help attract pollutants in the air, increase the negative ions that we need, and neutralize the effects of electronics around us. Lastly, invest in a good air purifier.
Avoid Non-Stick Teflon Cookware
Non-stick Teflon contains Perfluorinated Chemicals (PFCs). When those pans get scratched, these chemicals are released into our food. Bake with oven-safe glass or ceramic. Cook with cast iron, stainless steel, ceramic coated pots and pans, and “green” nonstick cookware.
Upgrade Your Tupperware
Plastic food storage can be loaded with chemicals. Among those chemicals are Bisphenol A Plastic (BPA), Bisphenol S Plastic (BPS), and Phthalates. Plastics can be especially harmful if you heat up your food in them or place hot food directly into them, as the heat will allow the plastic chemicals to absorb into your food. Glass containers are affordable, non-toxic options.
Replace Candles, Plug-ins and Air Fresheners
The ingredients in these synthetic fragrances are some of the most toxic items found within the home. Recent research indicates burning a candle produces toxins similar to smoking a cigarette! Air fresheners emit over 100 different chemicals including volatile organic compounds (terpenes such as limonene, alpha-pinene, and beta-pinene; terpenoids such as linalool and alpha-terpineol; ethanol, formaldehyde, benzene, toluene, and xylene) and semi-volatile organic compounds (such as phthalates). Choose natural options such as essential oil diffusers and homemade sprays using essential oils.
Ditch the Dryer Sheets
Dryer sheets are one of the most toxic things within the home. Dryer sheet manufacturers are not required to list the ingredients used in fragrance blends. Try wool dryer balls scented with essential oils.
Replace the Shower Curtain
Ever notice when you pull a new shower curtain out of the packaging that it has that really strong, plastic smell? (some people like it!) You are smelling chemicals and toxins off-gassing into your home. Search for a PVC free shower curtain or spend a few more dollars to get a non-plastic curtain. Fabric shower curtain liners are a great option.
Swap Your Cleaning Supplies
As consumers, we quickly become brand loyal and we trust what we see on the shelves at the local supermarket. Some people never even consider that what is sold to us to clean our homes may be dangerous to our family’s health. There are thousands of chemicals in the world of cleaning supplies. Only around 200 have them have been tested by the FDA and only a few of those are even regulated. The chemical safety law hasn’t been updated since the 1970s, meaning that we have little oversight of the chemicals within our home. While there are many good, non-toxic brands available today, the only things we use in our home are Thieves products.
Consider Buying Used
Certain household items can off-gas their chemicals into our home for quite a long time (like the shower curtain mentioned above). Strive for less plastic and more natural fibers such as wood, wool, etc. and consider buying certain household items and children’s toys used.
Switch Your Beauty & Skincare Products
It may seem trivial to worry about your beauty products contaminating the air within your own home, but little toxins added up over time can create a big mess. From hair sprays to perfumes and more, those scents can fill your home with toxins.
Clean Regularly
Be mindful of certain things like not wearing shoes in the home, keeping a doormat near each door, and cleaning regularly to reduce allergens and dust particles that enter and circulate in your home.
Striving for a non-toxic home can be within your reach if you educate yourself and become more mindful about what you allow into it. We hope that these tips help you begin!

It is very common for many to wake up once or twice during the night. When you can’t sleep, it becomes very frustrating can eventually cause health problems due to lack of sleep.
You may not have a problem falling asleep, but if you wake up during the night and you can’t get back to sleep quickly, you won’t get enough quality sleep to keep you refreshed and healthy. It’s important to figure out what’s waking you up so you can treat the problem and get some rest. In general, adults need about 7 to 9 hours of sleep a night for better health and well-being.
The following are some reasons that our otherwise restful sleep gets interrupted. Many of these can be corrected once we are aware of them, and we decide to make a change. A few helpful tips follow each cause.
Physical
Our bodies are wonderfully complex, and when something is a little out of sync it can disrupt other areas. Disrupted sleep can stem from arthritis pain or breathing issues due to asthma or bronchitis. Sleep disorders can also be caused by sleep apnea, and even hormone changes. Restless leg syndrome may cause a tingling or prickling feeling that makes you want to stretch or move your legs. Lastly, bladder issues may lead to frequent waking at night to urinate.
Tips: Get regular exercise. If you work out, do it at least 5 hours before bedtime. If physical issues persist, seek medical help. Interrupted sleep may lead to other adverse conditions.
Psychological
Stress plays a big part in our sleep patterns. When our bodies are stressed, our hormone levels are disrupted, and sleep cycles are affected. Anxiety disorders, anxiety attacks, and depression can also lead to interrupted sleep. Night terrors are most common in children, but they can happen to adults as well. These episodes of screaming, thrashing, or acting scared while you are asleep can be frightening and they certainly interrupt a night of restful sleep.
Tips: Go outside for at least 15 minutes each day to help set your biological clock. Stick to a sleep schedule - try to go to sleep and wake up at the same time every day. Follow a relaxing bedtime routine - take a warm bath, listen to soft music, or read a book.
Sleep Environment
Our bodies relax and we sleep much better when it is dark or when light is extremely limited. Too much light makes the brain want to stay in “wake” mode. Pets in the bed can be cute, but that 100 lb lab sleeping at your side can cause your sleep to be interrupted. Lastly, our bodies slow down and we sleep best when it is cool. That’s why that open window in the fall feels so good!
Tips: Short naps earlier in the day are great for our bodies. But don’t nap late in the day and avoid long naps altogether. Don’t use your bed for anything other than sleeping (well, almost anything…). Keep the room quiet, dark, and cool.
Electronics
In this age of information, it is so tempting to check the phone right before we go to sleep. But looking at your phone or any other screen right before bed jeopardizes your best sleep. The light from your phone and/or computer keeps your brain in active mode.
Tip: Don’t use devices that have screens in the hour before bed. Read a book instead.
Alcohol
A drink before bed may you fall asleep quickly, but you’ll wake up in the night as it wears off – especially if you need a trip to the bathroom. Alcohol also works to dehydrate your body, so when you do wake up you may feel lousy. And that just makes it harder to fall back to sleep.
Tip – avoid alcohol before bedtime and limit intake
Caffeine
Coffee, tea, nicotine, chocolate, etc. may seem like a good idea at the time. But those items are stimulants and they can take up to 8 hours to wear off. That extra stimulation may be all that’s between you and restful sleep.
Tip – don’t use tobacco and stay away from caffeine after dinner.
Lastly, if you are having trouble sleeping, don’t just lie there. If you wake up and can’t get back to sleep after 10 or 15 minutes, get out of bed and do something calming until you feel drowsy again. Resist the urge to grab your phone while you try to get back to sleep.
When we sleep well, we live well! Sweet dreams, sleep tight ๏









