Let’s talk about self-love—something many of us struggle with. Somewhere along the way, we stop seeing ourselves the way God does. We start believing lies: “I’m not good enough,” “I’ll never measure up,” or “I don’t have what it takes.” These lies create a spiral of self-doubt, and before we know it, we’ve forgotten that we are wonderfully made by a loving Creator.
The root of self-doubt is often a spiritual battle. Satan loves to attack our minds, planting seeds of comparison, insecurity, and worthlessness. But here’s the truth: You are fearfully and wonderfully made. You were created by a loving God who sees your worth, even when you don’t.
How do we fight back against the lies? It starts with capturing our thoughts and aligning them with God’s Word. Philippians 4:8 gives us a blueprint: think about things that are true, honorable, right, pure, lovely, and admirable. When we focus on these things, we push out the negativity and invite God’s truth to take root.
Here’s a practical exercise to get started: reach out to a few friends or family members and ask them to share three things they love about you. Turn those traits into affirmations, like “I am compassionate,” or “I am strong.” Write them down on a notecard or in your phone and repeat them to yourself twice a day. Yes, it might feel awkward at first, but the goal is to replace self-doubt with God’s truth.
Remember, loving yourself isn’t selfish—it’s biblical. Matthew 22:37-39 reminds us to love God, love others, and love ourselves. When we have a healthy, God-centered love for ourselves, we’re better equipped to love others.
Take this challenge: start identifying and affirming the God-given qualities within you. When your thoughts align with God’s, you’ll begin to see yourself the way He does: as a masterpiece, designed for a purpose.
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