Parenting to Give Flight
September 2017: 

Today, my thoughts have been full of my oldest son launched to university residence. The night before we drove him to his new home for this school year I went into his room late at night to pray for him. There were piles all around the room in some mysterious order readying for suitcase and duffle bag. But all week, J. had been recovering from camp fatigue and didn't want to think ahead to this new step. 

But there was no dodging it at this late hour. 

So, I stood behind his computer chair and offered to pray for him. He visibly relaxed as my hands found the knots that were so often there on his neck and shoulders. So, I massaged and poured out a prayer for both of us. When I felt free of my thoughts, I reached back into my memory for a song I had written 18 years ago - a song just for J. - for his dedication service at church. I had often sung the first verse after bedtime prayers but hadn't sung it for a long time... but today was time for verse two and three.
 
1. The first time you opened your eyes to the light
The glow seemed to come from inside
The freshness of heaven hung round you
And that day a new song took flight.
 
CHORUS:
Na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na, na
We were given a gift on that day
We dedicate the care of your heart
To the safety of God's hands today.
 
2. Each day is a wonder filled blessing to me
To watch you grow and I pray
You'll find your own song someday
When you see yourself held in God's eyes.
 
CHORUS
 
3. You'll always have a home in our hearts
But may you find yourself lost in God's plan
Caught up in a vision far greater
Than your imagination could plan.
 
CHORUS
We dedicate the care of your heart 
To the safety of God's hands today.
 
Trusting God's goodness before you opening the way ahead, behind you to soothe any hardships, and in you to pour beauty, patience, gentleness and care into your relating. And trusting God with us to continue to meet needs and be our peace and confidence. 
 
xo
 

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My Story - Turning Health Challenges Around

 
I was twenty-two years old and felt like 90. 

Every day I would get out of bed not knowing if I could make it to my 4th year classes. 
Some days I would shower and by the time I finished I felt dizzy, sleepy, and my muscles felt like lead. Sometimes I would be so weak that I had to crawl on all fours back to my bedroom to lay down again. I would get 12-14 hours of restless sleep that would leave me feeling like a truck hit me. I ached all over and my head felt like it would burst with the pounding pain. I was really sick - for months... and then years.    

My adult life was just beginning and I'd been handed a life sentence of chronic illness.   

I got married that fall to Lance Wright, my very supportive and understanding husband. He and I talked about taking a year off - no schedule - to allow my body to recover. I was on a downward spiral and had no answers about how to turn it around. My world shrunk - fast.  

But as my outward world shrunk, I was determined to grow my inner world through reading, prayer, and writing. I knew the diagnosis I'd been given wasn't the end of my story. I trusted that I'd find the steps needed to heal.   

One day as I was asking God to heal me, I got a picture in my mind of a drooping flower bound tightly by weeds. A flash of understanding came with it. I felt as if God was saying, "Healing will be a slow process. Trust me and I will lead you to part of the weed to loosen its hold and remove its influence." This became the perfect symbol for my wellness journey - bit by bit finding healing steps and feeling life and strength return.  

Part of my wellness picture was uncovering trauma that had taught my mind and body that I wasn't safe. So the safety of my relationship with Lance was the starting point for the hard work of healing. When I would get discouraged about how little I could accomplish each day, Lance would remind me that my full-time job in this season was to heal. After a digging deep process, digestive cleansing, and dietary changes over eight years, I started to gain ground. 

I am 52 this year and feel better than I did in my twenties. Lance and I have raised three young men together and I spent 17 years as a homeschool Mom. I have become passionate about helping people discern steps to get unstuck to move toward health. It feels redemptive to use the years of research and experimenting to shorten the road for others looking for a path forward. Enjoy perusing my blog or follow @pegwright | Linktree for a way to connect. I'd love to pull up a chair at our table and share with you the small steps that are opening doors of possibility for life-giving change.  Let's Thrive - together! 

For a full version of my exploration and self-discovery, read my book 'Opening to Grace' found on Amazon or fromWestbow Press.



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