When Fibi came into our lives, she wasn't just a puppy; she was a serendipitous gift from an accidental litter, a blend of her Havanese mom and poodle dad. At 13 weeks old, she finally joined our family, her sweet puppy breath and gentle demeanor instantly melting our hearts. Little did we know, she would become an irreplaceable part of our lives for the next 14 years.
Fibi isn't just a pet; she's family. Over the years, as my husband and I transitioned to working from home, Fibi became deeply attached to us. Her presence filled our days with companionship and joy, her anxiety palpable whenever we prepared to leave. I became her person, the one she looked to for reassurance and comfort in a bond that transcends words.
She's not your typical dog—more like a cat-dog, independent yet deeply affectionate in her own way. As deafness gradually claimed her hearing, we adapted, using hand signals and even a laser pointer for her night outings. Despite her quirks, she's been the perfect companion, meeting every criterion I researched for in a dog: hypoallergenic, non-yappy, and smart.
But as time passes, age catches up. Health issues surfaced, challenging both Fibi and me. An enlarged heart now presses on her trachea, causing distressing coughing fits. Our visits to the vets have become more frequent, and her medication regimen grows with each passing week. Recently, fainting spells have added to our worries, reminding us of her fragility.
This journey isn't easy. It's filled with moments of grief and tears, confronting emotions long kept at bay. Being strong was second nature, but now, embracing vulnerability is a lesson in itself. We cherish every wag of her tail, every lick of affection, knowing that our time together, though uncertain in duration, is filled with unconditional love.
As we navigate this uncertain road, our family of three adults and two dogs leans on each other. We're learning to treasure each day with Fibi, celebrating the small victories and comforting her through the setbacks. Our hope is for more time, but we're preparing for the inevitable, finding solace in the love we've shared.
To those who understand the bond with a beloved pet, your support means everything. Whether through prayers, kind words, or simply sharing our journey, your empathy carries us forward. As we continue this path toward the rainbow bridge, we hold onto hope, grateful for the privilege of loving Fibi.
Stay tuned as I share updates on Fibi and our family. For now, we embrace each day as the precious gift it is, surrounded by love and gratitude.
Thank you for being a part of our journey.
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